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LAUNCH - GAPLC Survivor Compliance & Accountability List

Welcome to Access Haven – The Power Shift Headline: Stop Asking for Help. Start Demanding Compliance. To the 1,000 Warriors in this Haven, For too long, we’ve gone to the police with our hearts in our hands, only to be told "it’s a civil matter" or "there's no evidence of a crime." That ends today. Welcome to Access Haven . We aren't just a support group; we are a litigation-ready community. I have spent the early hours of this morning building the GAPCL (Guardian Angel Project Compliance List) . From now on, when you speak to the police, you don't use their language—you use ours . You don't tell them he's "being mean"—you tell them he is in breach of SCA 2015 s.76 . The GAPCL is your Shield and your Hammer: s.76 (Coercive Control): For the "invisible" psychological war. s.4A (Stalking): For the "watching" and digital shadows. s.75A (Strangulation): For the high-risk physical markers they often miss. Article 2 (H...

Beyond the Safe Word: Finding Your Human Anchor

Trusting Your Anchor When you are fighting an Extreme High-Risk threat, the most vital tool isn't always an app—it's a reliable human being. Abusers thrive on isolation, but resilience is built on connection. Finding your Human Anchor is the non-negotiable step that ensures your safety and survival. Why You Need a Human Anchor 💖 In the chaos of C-PTSD and trauma lag, your mind can be overwhelmed and shut down (the "lagging internet browser" effect). This is when you need a stable person who can act as your safety barrier and your external brain. The Critical Role of the Anchor: Your anchor is the person who is not paralyzed by the situation. They manage the logistics while you manage the trauma. The Legal Shield (Chris's Story): An anchor provides a legal barrier. They live in the secured safe house , act as the witness to any breach, and are ready to defend the physical sanctuary (like the "builder" who fortifies the home). The Anchor Protocol...

👑 About Us: The Mandate to Correct Systemic Failure

👑 About Us: The Mandate to Correct Systemic Failure Our Origin: From Trauma to Triumph The Guardian Angel Project C.I.C. was founded by Becky Chadburn because she was forced to become the "Findoutologist" of her own life. Our genesis lies in a devastating personal truth: our founder was a victim of Extreme High-Risk Stalking for over four years (2021–2025). She endured the constant fear and psychological torture of abuse that the courts repeatedly underestimated. When she finally found the strength to step away, she realised the systems designed to protect us—the police, the courts, and traditional helplines—were often unprepared to handle the reality of modern abuse. She faced Systemic Betrayal Trauma , which forced her to a crisis point. Our Mission: Building the Undeniable Shield The Guardian Angel Project C.I.C. exists to fix this broken system. We are a Community Interest Company (C.I.C.) dedicated to transforming trauma into an active, strategic defence. Our Core Ma...